DuohemParenting plan: build a clear co-parenting agreement
A parenting plan is a written co-parenting agreement that sets out how you will care for and make arrangements for your children. It can help create clarity, reduce uncertainty and support calmer communication. The Duohem builder guides you through the key topics and writes a draft parenting plan for you. This page is general information, not legal advice.
What is a parenting plan?
In the UK, a co-parenting agreement is commonly called a parenting plan. A parenting plan is not legally binding on its own. It can be made into a consent order by the court. Cafcass publishes a free parenting plan guide and template, which can also help you think through the arrangements that matter to your family.
What a good parenting plan covers
A useful parenting plan explains where the children live and how time is shared, including handovers and practical routines. It can cover holidays and special days, school and health matters, how you will communicate, money and child-related costs, travel, new partners and possible moves. It can also say when and how you will review the plan as the children and your circumstances change.
Build your draft
The builder takes you through the main areas of your family life and helps you record the arrangements you want to discuss. It then writes a draft parenting plan in clear, practical language. You can use the draft as a starting point for conversations and, where appropriate, take time to agree the details together.
Mediation and court applications
In England and Wales, a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) is usually required before applying to court about children. A parenting plan can help you identify the points you agree on and the points that still need discussion. If you need guidance about your own situation, consider getting independent legal advice.
Questions and answers
Is a parenting plan legally binding?
No. A parenting plan is not legally binding on its own. It can be made into a consent order by the court.
Where can I find a parenting plan guide?
Cafcass publishes a free parenting plan guide and template. The Duohem builder also helps you create a draft tailored to the topics that matter to your family.
Do I need a MIAM before applying to court about children?
In England and Wales, a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) is usually required before applying to court about children.
A template to help parents agree – not legal advice.